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Here’s where I think things get pretty interesting, if not “down- right” surprising. When you look at the ages of the women in each category, it actually pretty much balances right out to be totally spread evenly and equally across the board. With the exception of the “Boy Toy” category, that swings decidedly to the more mature women in the survey.

So check this out, and then fathom just what it means to your ability to get the women you are looking for, in the specific age range that you desire, whether that be from college schoolgirl to MILF! Whether you find yourself attracted to or wanting to spend a little quality time with a particular age group of women, the truth is, the standards and desires of what women generally are looking for in a dating and mating situation with a guy, are amazingly far more evenly distributed throughout the entire age range of the lady participants. I think that is a very, very, very encouraging sign to us guys!  

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Only in the category or looking for a Repetitive “Boy Toy” do we find any noticeable variation in age groups, and when you think about it, that really makes a lot of logical sense, when considering this particular category any way. Face it, this category constitutes the female equivalent of a “Sugar Daddy,” and face it, reality clearly dictates that it is most likely only going to be the more mature, financially set women who are going to be in the position to treat a guy as her personal play-thing.  

Often these are either highly successful, financially well off professional women, who have arrived, made their mark, and take their career very seriously. These ladies don’t have time for in-depth emotional and mental game play. They just need to have a ready and waiting stud carefully stashed away in their stable, to take out for a wild ride two or three times a week, and then get back to business. Or, on the other hand, these women tend to be lucratively well off divorcees and widows. Who have no further interest in entering into the state of nuptials again, but would like some regular guy action just to scratch that special itch, when it needs to be scratched, and then get the heck out of the way the rest of the time.  

So naturally that category is going to automatically skew a bit high, and be a more dedicated focus for those women in the upper age brackets. But other than that, hey, congratulations, seems that “the sky’s the limit,” as there are plenty of available women, of all ages, desires, intentions and sought after lifestyles, spanning the entire gamut of dating and mating scenarios. Seems that the conventional wisdom that most women in the so-called “know,” perpetrate upon our consciousness about such matters, falls pretty darned far from actual reality in this particular subject, and I say, thank God!

Online Dating Tips. Things You Should Always Ask a Potential Date.

Day 6 - Online dating?

Is He Married?
Theoretically, someone who's married will not be prowling an online dating site. And if we sh in the theoretical, you don't have to worry. But the fact is. there are a lot of married people oul there on the sites, and they won't necessarily say it in their profiles. Some will, surprisingly. Someone who does might be part of a swinger couple. He could be part of a polyamorous relationship, and he's looking to add another spouse to the mix. He could just have an open relationship with his wife.
However, most married prowlers won't state this up front. There are a variety of non-single barkers on the online dating sites. Some are looking to have an affair. Some are looking for a o: night stand while their spouse is out of town. And some are just looking—wondering if there might be someone else out there for them: someone more compatible, someone sexier, someor new and interesting.
 
Whatever their reason for lurking, you're going to want to know that thev* are and know why they are. And if you want to have a relationship with someone who doesn't already have one going on, you're going to want to say good-bye once you know the truth.
But how do you get to the truth, you ask? Always a pickle. You just have to ask and see what he says. The bottom line is, you won't know it if he lies to you. You just have to hope for the best— and maybe run a background check.

What Was Her Last Relationship Like?
This can be tricky even with someone you've met and dated a few times. But, while you want your potential date to avoid talking about exes in her profile, when it conies to getting to know her and deciding whether to date her, you should ask this question. These are a couple of
reasons.

If her last relationship was short and barely the definition of a relationship, then vou should ask about the relationship before that. If you keep going back and none of her relationships lasted through a change in the seasons, then you may have a serial dater on TOUT hands. She mav be someone who is always looking for something better, so she doesnl stick around long enough to really get involved.
If her last relationship was 10 years ago, that's something important to know as well Why hasn't she been involved with anyone since then? Was the relationship so |HMi»f«il it turned her off men? Was the relationship so significant that she's still in love with her ex and will never be able to
love another?

What if her last relationship lasted 10 years? To be with someone that long requires a fairlv long recovery period during which you would probably hf; rfmsfafarwi a IWJUBMIH And why did they break up after 10 years? You'll want to know what kind of wounds she might be licking.
What if her last relationship was with a woman? Knowing your potential date's sexuality is generally considered essential. Asking about her last relationship might open a can of worms, but it's better to see them than just hope they don't exist
 

10 Tips for Creating a Catchy Dating Site Profile

Like it or not, your profile is the first opportunity for people to decide whether or not they would like to get to know you better. So, it would make sense that you want to make your profile as captivating as possible. Follow these 10 tips for creating your profile and you'll be making great connections in no time.

1. Differentiate yourself

Before you start creating your masterpiece, peruse through a bunch of existing profiles to see what people are already saying... and then don't say those things. You've got the chance to demonstrate that you're unique and special - the words you use to describe yourself should set you apart, not make you blend in with the crowd. You're facing some steep competition in the online adult dating world. You've got to find a way to stand out.

2. Have a Fabulous (and realistic) Photo

Your photo isn't the only factor that will make or break you, but it is a major aspect. Make sure your photo is clear and professional. Don't settle for a simple head shot - there's no rule to say you can't be doing something you love in your photo. In fact, you want to make your photo as memorable as possible without being too corny. Count how many photos you see of people with their dog. Please! You can be more creative than that.

For goodness sake, let your photo be flattering but it's also got to be accurate. If you've gained 40 pounds since your photo was taken, choose a more recent shot. Same goes for age... don't use photos that are more than five years old. Using a deceiving photo is only setting yourself up for disappointment down the road.

3. Keep it Readable

If you're a seasoned online dater, no doubt you've learned your share of online lingo. But not everyone knows that GWM ISO LDR means that you're a gay white male in search of a long distance relationship. Keep in mind that a lot of people reading your profile might be new to online dating and have no idea what all the trendy acronyms mean. Appearing to be ultra cyber sophisticated could be a real turn off.

4. Writing Checks You Can't Actually Cash

Are you writing checks in your profile that your personality simply can't cash? If you say that you're funny, be funny. If you describe yourself as successful, you better at least have a full-time job. And if you call yourself a big literature collector, chances are most people won't count your Archie comic book collection. Make sure you're grounded in reality when creating your profile. Consider letting a friend preview it to make sure it rings true for them.

5. K.I.S.S. - Keep is Simple Stupid

You're profile isn't meant to tell the whole story... you want just enough information to pique someone's interest. Leave a little to their imagination. Don't put so much information in your profile that it's more like a novel than a quick description. People should be able to read about you in a minute or less. Too much information will likely be boring and tedious to read.

6. Don't reveal anything too bizarre about yourself

Unless we're talking about an adult dating site, disclosing a bizarre fetish or fantasy might not be your best bet. You'll want to let someone get to know you before you let them in on some of your shocking secrets.

7. Use proper spelling and grammar

One of the biggest mistakes you can make when creating your profile is to have spelling and grammatical errors all over it. It's hard to portray yourself as a smart, successful person when you have trouble with basic writing skills. Have someone proof read your profile before it goes live.

8. Don't Make it All About You

Of course your online dating profile is about you... who else would it be about? But be cautious about coming off as boastful or arrogant. You definitely want to highlight your finer points, but try to be humble. Also, keep in mind that you also want to save a couple of lines to describe the person you are looking for.

9. Create a realistic and respectful description of your ideal mate

Two words to keep in mind when describing the person you are looking for are realistic and respectful. You should absolutely be honest about the personality and physical traits you are seeking, but try to do this without seeming too shallow.

10. Be honest about your status and what you are looking for

If you have kids or are just recently divorced, don't try to hide these facts. People will find out the truth eventually so you might as well disclose it up front. Adult dating sites are great examples of honesty. Have a look at some of these profiles and you'll see people who really lay their cards out on the table.